As nurses, we give of ourselves without a thought when others need us. Often we don't stop to think of the impact we have on the entire family. Night nursing is no exception. Many families need extended support due to medical issues post birth either with mom or baby. The impact of what I do for families really hit home after receiving this email from extended family this past weekend.
"I have thought of writing this note many times during the last several months, because I want you to know what a gift you gave our grandchildren, daughter and son-in-law by caring so skillfully and lovingly for them on the night shift.
Today when I watch T walk across the room dressed in a fairy outfit, or Z chasing a ball, or hear B saying, “Good morning z-a-doodle and T-bee,” they are thriving, and I’d love you to see it. All of you are like the gardeners who helped tend the little seedlings for hours----it may not show on the outside, but it mattered so much!!
We feel we know you from R and J's tales of how patient, knowledgeable, encouraging, and balanced you were. They got reassurance and humor from your regular shifts, and the benefit of your countless hours of experience. It helped R to heal, get some sleep, and have contact with adults who really cared about Z and T and B, too.
So although this note does not have a hero’s medal enclosed or a brass band tribute, it comes with our full hearts of thanks. We hope that the goodness you’ve shared with so many comes back to you and your families. When we celebrate The Twins' first birthday on December 11th, you'll be there in spirit.
Warm regards during this holiday season,
H&E V
(Names have not been provided for confidentiality reasons)